Photographs by: @raginglung & @ikrvt
Name / Nickname: Dezy
Instagram: dammnsugar
About You:
• Introduce yourself in a few words.
→Woof! Dezydery here, but you can call me Dezy. Based in Warsaw.
A nostalgic soul with a soft spot for anime, manga, and pretty much the entire world of animation (my tattoos say it all). Once a Spice Boy, always a Spice Boy.
I enjoy long walks, bike rides, horror movies, and dancing like nobody’s watching. Living with Type 1 diabetes, but it is another part of my story.
• Where are you right now (physically or emotionally)?
→ Physically, I’m in my happy place – my home. Emotionally, I feel grounded and moving in a really good direction
• What is your favorite place on earth?
→Anywhere there’s sunshine and people with good energy and a positive attitude.
• What has been on your mind lately?
→ Embracing change and trusting that beautiful things are on their way.
• What’s a small thing that brings you joy?
→ Listening to music, eating strawberries, and sharing a really good kiss.
• What’s something people often misunderstand about you?
→ Sometimes people think I’m judgmental, but it’s really just my resting face. Once I smile, that changes quickly. Deep down, I’m a very warm, sweet, affectionate person that love a good laugh – definitely a hugger.
• Something or someone that you are currently obsessed with?
→”Crybaby” and his work of art.
Body & Relationship
• What attracts you to someone?
→ Personality, passion, a great sense of humor… and definitely good music taste.
• What makes you feel desired?
→When someone shows genuine interest. Asking about my day, my thoughts, even my dreams. Wanting to spend time together and just be present means everything. Sometimes the smallest gestures say the most. And don’t get me wrong here sexting is also very appreciated.
• What is a part of your body you appreciate?
→ My legs, bum and penis. I’ve learned to appreciate my body more over time.
• How do you see yourself when you look at your photos?
→I see growth. Sometimes it’s hard to believe how much I’ve changed, especially comparing my teenage years to now.
• How has the relationship with your body changed over time?
→ I’d describe it as a journey toward acceptance and I’m still evolving.
• Red flags and green flags in a relationship/date
→ Green flag: kindness and respect toward others and oneself.
→ Red flag: narcissistic behavior or poor communication. Mutual respect is essential.
• Your ideal location for a date?
→Anywhere, as long as the person is present and not distracted by their phone.
• Flirty or shy at first?
→ A little bit of both. Depends on the vibe.
Sex & Intimacy
• When do you feel most connected during sex?
→Through closeness. Eye contact, affection, and shared energy or spanks.
• What turns you on (physically, emotionally, mentally)?
→ A great kiss. It’s essential for me.
• What makes a sexual experience feel good beyond the physical?
→ The connection afterward: talking, laughing, and enjoying each other’s presence.
• What do you wish people were more open about when it comes to sex?
→Honest conversations about safe sex and well-being. I think gay community is now a bit lost due to chem-sex pandemic.
• Any kinks?
→ I’m drawn to certain aesthetics. Like strong features(nice thighs), a bit of edge(leather-ish accesories), and confidence.
• Tell us a fantasy of yours.
→ Experiencing intimacy in zero gravity, something surreal and out of this world, like being in a spaceship surrounded by the universe.
• Use a few words to describe what good sex is to you?
→ Mutual pleasure, connection, and shared energy.
• Share a memorable experience (without going into too many details):
→Last summer moment that felt incredibly immersive and almost otherworldly. I was in my searchimg for new expirance era, and tried ‘shrooms. Sex on shrooms wqs beyond magical and sensual. Like having sex with the universe.
Finally
• Tell us one random thing about you:
→I once cried watching an episode of Battlestar Galactica. It really stayed with me.
