Basic Info
Name / Nickname: Jose
Instagram: @sotosinmas
About You
- Introduce yourself in a few words.
→ Young male journalist in my 40`s trying my best - Where are you right now (physically or emotionally)?
→ It could be worse. I´m happy the most of the times, but sometimes the ghost come to visit me. Physically I thin I´m better than ever. - What is your favorite place on earth?
→ El Delta del Ebro - What has been on your mind lately?
→ Struggleling against some issues - What’s a small thing that brings you joy?
→ Wake up in the morning and enjoy the first rays of sun - Your favorite piece of clothing or accessory?
→ My PA - What’s something people often misunderstand about you?
→ When they see me at a party they often think I´m superb because I don´t talk too much with people, but they don´t know I´m just very shy and I always think I´m in the wrong place - Something or someone that you are currently obsessed with?
→ Italian music. I love italian culture and I have even studied italian.
Body & Relationship
- What attracts you to someone?
→ The smile and a hot body, but the smile is everything. - What makes you feel desired?
→ Being listened, truly listened. - What is a part of your body you appreciate?
→ Nothing - How do you see yourself when you look at your photos?
→ It´s hard, because I have a very bad relationship with my body. - How has the relationship with your body changed over time?
→ I have had a very bad relationship with my body since I was a child and my family made fun of me becuase I was too thin or too fat. - Red flags and green flags in a relationship/date
→ Red flag: disdaining the waiter. I hate classist and selfish people.
→ Green flag: kindness, empathy - Your ideal location for a date?
→ Going to a movie. I love movies and I love to share that with someone. - Flirty or shy at first?
→ Extremly shy - Tell us about a crush you have had.
→ I had many and I never tell just in case they don´t like me. I´m not strong enough to face a rejection. I prefer not to tell someone and lose the opportunity than the possibility of recived a no.
Sex & Intimacy
- When do you feel most connected during sex?
→ Kissing is everything. I could Kiss for hours. That´s the real intimacy for me. - What turns you on (physically, emotionally, mentally)?
→ Italian or argentinina accent (guilty), a nice smile and a balanced mind in a muscled body, but above of all of this, kindness. The guys I have felt in love the most were nice guys. - What makes a sexual experience feel good beyond the physical?
→ When you can be yourself and don´t feel slut ashamed. We are been told that there is only one way to have sex and everything else is pervert. It takes a long time to learn what are you into and sometimes we don´t tell because prejudices. So if someone opens to you and tell you what he likes, just listen. You don´t have to do that, you don´t have to like it, but respect. - What do you wish people were more open about when it comes to sex?
→ About asking for their needs because of what I said above. - Any kinks?
→ A lot and everything is better in leather. - Tell us a fantasy of yours.
→ I will tell you in a date. But I have learn that sometimes fantasies are better not to be done because they can be not as Good as you imagined them. - Use a few words to describe what good sex is to you?
→ When you feel the connection with the other and you want to cuddle after and no dress up quickly and go back home. - Share a memorable experience (without going into too many details):
→ One night at a club´s bath
Finally
- Tell us one random thing about you:
→ I cried a lot in front of the tomb of Jack Lemmon. Was my dad´s favourite actor and his tomb is besides Billy Wilder´s, one of my favourite directors of all time. When I went to LA I went to visit them and all the memories with my father came to me in that very moment.