Featured Photographer: Dovisnotabird
Intimate Profile: Flavio
Basic Info
Name / Nickname: Flavio
X: f_laffy
About You
โข Introduce yourself in a few words.
โIโm a curious soul who loves a good story and finds beauty in the small, often overlooked details of everyday life.
โข Where are you right now (physically or emotionally)?
โ, Iโm in a state of cautious optimism, trying to stay grounded while looking forward to whatโs next.
โข What is your favorite place on earth?
โ every place with the sea
โข What has been on your mind lately?
โ i need relax right now ahah
โข What’s a small thing that brings you joy?
โ a good talk
โข Your favorite piece of clothing or accessory?
โ baseball hat, jockstrap, white socks,
โข What’s something people often misunderstand about you?
โ my self control
โข Something or someone that you are currently obsessed with?
โ menโs butt? ahah
Body & Relationship
What attracts you to someone?
Iโm drawn to a certain raw, masculine energy. Visually, Iโm a sucker for thick, muscular legs and a guy who carries himself with confidence. But honestly? If I catch a whiff of his natural scentโespecially from his armpitsโand see him in a pair of well-fitting briefs, Iโm already halfway there.
What makes you feel desired?
Nothing beats the feeling of a man being absolutely consumed by me. When he canโt keep his hands off my thighs or when he looks at me with that primal hunger, itโs electric.
What is a part of your body you appreciate?
My legs, without a doubt. Iโve put in the work at the gym, and I love the way they feelโstrong, hairy, and functional.
How do you see yourself when you look at your photos?
I see a man who has finally grown into his own skin. I used to be a bit shy, but now I see the “kink” in my eyes.
How has the relationship with your body changed over time?
It has evolved from seeking external validation to pure self-appreciation.
. I stopped trying to fit a “standard” and started celebrating my own masculine edges.
Red flags and green flags in a relationship/date
Green flag: Heโs curious about my kinks and shares his own without shame; also, a man who knows the value of good “natural” hygiene. Red flag: Someone who is judgmental
Your ideal location for a date?
A dimly lit, slightly grimy dive bar where we can sit close.I
Flirty or shy at first?
Iโm definitely the flirty type. I like to hold eye contact just a second too long and use subtle touch to test the waters.
Tell us about a crush you have had.
There was this athlete at my local gym with the most incredible calves and a habit of wearing very loose tank tops.
Sex & Intimacy
When do you feel most connected during sex?
Itโs that moment when all the polite pretenses drop and weโre just two guys being primal. When weโre locked in, and Iโm fully immersed in his scent and his body thatโs when the deepest connection happens. Itโs a total surrender to the senses.
What turns you on (physically, emotionally, mentally)?
Physically: Muscular legs, sweaty armpits, and a man in used white briefs or a jockstrap. Mentally: The power exchange of worshipโwhether Iโm at his feet or heโs at mine. Emotionally: The trust required to be “filthy” together without any “ew” factor.
What makes a sexual experience feel good beyond the physical?
Itโs the “headspace.” Knowing that we are both completely on the same page about our desires. When thereโs zero judgment and 100% exploration, it transcends the physical and becomes a sort of shared, kinky meditation.
What do you wish people were more open about when it comes to sex?
I wish men were more honest about their “weird” turn-ons. So many guys hide their love for feet or gear because theyโre afraid of being “too much.” Weโd all have much better sex if we just admitted that, yeah, we actually really like the smell of a gym bag.
Any kinks?
Iโm deep into foot worship, armpit play (the scentier, the better), and a massive obsession with men’s underwearโespecially when they’ve been worn and carry that masculine musk. If itโs primal, sweaty, and a bit “off-limits,” Iโm probably into it.
Tell us a fantasy of yours.
Being trapped in a locker room after a game with a guy whoโs still in his gear. Iโd start by pulling off his shoes to worship his feet, then move up to his sweaty pits, eventually ending with him pinned against the lockers, still wearing his dirty jockstrap.
Use a few words to describe what good sex is to you?
Musky, primal, uninhibited, and intensely physical.
Share a memorable experience (without going into too many details):
I once spent an entire rainy afternoon with a guy who just let me worship his feet and legs while he stayed in his workout gear. No “traditional” sex happened for hoursโjust pure sensory exploration and scent-play. It was one of the most intimate things Iโve ever done.
Finally
Tell us one random thing about you:
I have a “collection” drawer that would probably surprise most people. Itโs filled with vintage briefs and jockstraps from guys Iโve seen, each one a little souvenir of a specific night or a specific scent I never want to forget.
Sebastian in Madrid
I used to think making friends was something that happened naturally. Like weather. Like
summer arriving after a long winter. In my twenties, connection felt accidental and easy:
university hallways, a Facebook poke , friends of friends who somehow became family. But
somewhere between turning thirty and moving across countries, friendship stopped feeling
spontaneous and started feeling intentional.
I lived in Warszawa for four years. At first, Poland felt cold in every possible sense. The
language intimidated me, people seemed reserved, and I often questioned what I was doing
there in the first place. I remember long winters walking through Muranow, wondering if I would
ever truly belong in that city. Yet slowly, almost without noticing, something shifted.
The people I met there became more than drinking buddies or temporary expat acquaintances.
They became part of my life in a deeper way. Real friendships built over dinners at home,
conversations that lasted until sunrise, birthdays, heartbreaks, everyday routines. The kind of
connections that donโt need constant performance. People who showed up.
I only realized how meaningful those friendships were after leaving Poland and returning to
Colombia. Distance has a strange way of revealing what was genuine. Some of those friends
visited me and my husband in Bogotรก and Barranquilla. Seeing them in my world โ speaking
broken Spanish and interacting with my family, dancing to reggaeton next to the river, sweating
in the Caribbean heat after years of Polish winters โ made me understand that friendship,
when it is real, survives geography. It adapts. It travels.
Now I live in Madrid, and somehow, I find myself starting over again.
Madrid is vibrant, loud, and beautiful. Full of life. Full of people. And yet, meeting people in your
thirties feels completely different. The only difference is that now we speak the same language.
Everyone already seems to have their circles, their routines, their emotional bandwidth
occupied. Social media creates the illusion that we are constantly connected, but most
interactions feel temporary.. Especially as a gay man, I often feel like many spaces are built
around attraction first, connection second.
I miss genuine friendship. Conversations without ulterior motives. Meeting other gay men in
their thirties who also want community, softness, honesty. People who want to share a coffee, a
dinner at home, stories about popstars, career fears, migration, love. Real life beyond Instagram
stories and dating apps.
Starting from scratch at this stage of life can feel exhausting.Friendship now requires
vulnerability, effort, and patience in ways nobody prepares you for. But if Warszawa taught me
anything, it is that meaningful connections take time. They grow slowly. Quietly. And often when
you least expect them. So maybe this chapter in Madrid is not about instantly finding my people.
Maybe it is about remaining open enough to recognize them when they arrive.
Featured Photographer: Jwx photo
Intimate Profile: Jose
Basic Info
Name / Nickname: Jose
Instagram: @sotosinmas
About You
- Introduce yourself in a few words.
โ Young male journalist in my 40`s trying my best - Where are you right now (physically or emotionally)?
โ It could be worse. Iยดm happy the most of the times, but sometimes the ghost come to visit me. Physically I thin Iยดm better than ever. - What is your favorite place on earth?
โ El Delta del Ebro - What has been on your mind lately?
โ Struggleling against some issues - What’s a small thing that brings you joy?
โ Wake up in the morning and enjoy the first rays of sun - Your favorite piece of clothing or accessory?
โ My PA - What’s something people often misunderstand about you?
โ When they see me at a party they often think Iยดm superb because I donยดt talk too much with people, but they donยดt know Iยดm just very shy and I always think Iยดm in the wrong place - Something or someone that you are currently obsessed with?
โ Italian music. I love italian culture and I have even studied italian.
Body & Relationship
- What attracts you to someone?
โ The smile and a hot body, but the smile is everything. - What makes you feel desired?
โ Being listened, truly listened. - What is a part of your body you appreciate?
โ Nothing - How do you see yourself when you look at your photos?
โ Itยดs hard, because I have a very bad relationship with my body. - How has the relationship with your body changed over time?
โ I have had a very bad relationship with my body since I was a child and my family made fun of me becuase I was too thin or too fat. - Red flags and green flags in a relationship/date
โ Red flag: disdaining the waiter. I hate classist and selfish people.
โ Green flag: kindness, empathy - Your ideal location for a date?
โ Going to a movie. I love movies and I love to share that with someone. - Flirty or shy at first?
โ Extremly shy - Tell us about a crush you have had.
โ I had many and I never tell just in case they donยดt like me. Iยดm not strong enough to face a rejection. I prefer not to tell someone and lose the opportunity than the possibility of recived a no.
Sex & Intimacy
- When do you feel most connected during sex?
โ Kissing is everything. I could Kiss for hours. Thatยดs the real intimacy for me. - What turns you on (physically, emotionally, mentally)?
โ Italian or argentinina accent (guilty), a nice smile and a balanced mind in a muscled body, but above of all of this, kindness. The guys I have felt in love the most were nice guys. - What makes a sexual experience feel good beyond the physical?
โ When you can be yourself and donยดt feel slut ashamed. We are been told that there is only one way to have sex and everything else is pervert. It takes a long time to learn what are you into and sometimes we donยดt tell because prejudices. So if someone opens to you and tell you what he likes, just listen. You donยดt have to do that, you donยดt have to like it, but respect. - What do you wish people were more open about when it comes to sex?
โ About asking for their needs because of what I said above. - Any kinks?
โ A lot and everything is better in leather. - Tell us a fantasy of yours.
โ I will tell you in a date. But I have learn that sometimes fantasies are better not to be done because they can be not as Good as you imagined them. - Use a few words to describe what good sex is to you?
โ When you feel the connection with the other and you want to cuddle after and no dress up quickly and go back home. - Share a memorable experience (without going into too many details):
โ One night at a clubยดs bath
Finally
- Tell us one random thing about you:
โ I cried a lot in front of the tomb of Jack Lemmon. Was my dadยดs favourite actor and his tomb is besides Billy Wilderยดs, one of my favourite directors of all time. When I went to LA I went to visit them and all the memories with my father came to me in that very moment.
Jorge in Madrid
Iโm Jorge, Iโm 32 years old and I live in Madrid. I was raised in a Catholic Christian environment. I remember a teacher at school once saying that if everyone were gay, humanity would disappear because nobody would have children. At that time I didnโt know I was gay, but I defended gay people with all my strength because I thought what he was saying was terrible.
It wasnโt until I moved to England to study that I became aware of my own sexual orientation. I had many sexual experiences, and I suffered a lot because I was desperately searching for love. One day, a doctor at a sexual health clinic told me that I was looking for it in the wrong places, he was referring to Grindr.
I had a few relationships, but it wasnโt until I arrived in Madrid that I found the love of my life. At the beginning things were difficult, but we were in a closed relationship for seven years. Later we confessed to each other that we had both been unfaithful. When we opened the relationship, new opportunities appeared, but so did new challenges. Through therapy and through growing together, weโve been finding ways to make it work. We can still have our romantic moments, which are important for us to preserve, while also exploring with other people together or separately.
I keep discovering more things about myself, including things I enjoy sexually.
My relationship with my own image has always been a little strange. When I was a teenager I was overweight and felt very insecure. Later, at university, I became too thin, and no matter how much I went to the gym my body never seemed to change. Much later I realised that I simply needed to eat more. Still, Iโve always struggled to fully like my body. Maybe my fatherโs emphasis on appearance and physical image had some influence on me.
When I was studying at university and drawing live models, I realised it was something I wanted to explore myself. I tried working as a life model and I loved the feeling. I felt free because artists interpreted my body in their own ways, and many of them saw beauty where I couldnโt see it myself. Of course, they also sometimes highlighted imperfections, and I had to learn to accept them and understand which ones were real and which ones were exaggerated.
Iโve also had nude photographs taken of me, and I love the feeling of it. I feel sexy, and I love seeing the results afterwards. I like the idea of capturing my own beauty at a particular moment in my life. Iโd love to continue doing it with different photographers because I love the way it makes me feel.
Some things simply cannot be explained with words.
Featured Photographer: Daniel Pacheco
Intimate Profile: Pablo
About You
โข Introduce yourself in a few words.
โ Hi, Iโm Patrick. ๐ Iโd say some fitting words are quirky, cheerful, fun to be around. At the same time: thoughtful, always happy to help people and make them have a good time. Good listener. ENFJ-T personality, apparently.
โข Where are you right now (physically or emotionally)?
โ So far at the best place Iโve been in my life, especially emotionally. Got rid of things and people which dragged me down in the past, worked on myself, now Iโm living my best life and try to experience things I couldnโt in my teens/20s.
โข What is your favorite place on earth?
โ In my partnerโs arms while he gently strokes my head. Either that, or being surrounded by bunnies on ลkunoshima island (seriously, check that out).
โข What has been on your mind lately?
โ We opened up our relationship and Iโve met some new, interesting โ and hot โ people. Trying to process all the new experiences, emotions and situations definitely keeps my mind busy, but in a positive way.
โข What’s a small thing that brings you joy?
โ Seeing people smile in public.
โข Your favorite piece of clothing or accessory?
โ My purple base cap from Keller Kreuzberg with โCute Slutโ embroidered on it
โข What’s something people often misunderstand about you?
โ Just because Iโm friendly and have basic decency doesnโt mean Iโm interested in having sex with you.
โข Something or someone that you are currently obsessed with?
โ My obsessions change often, but right now itโs โฆ old Pokรฉmon games, for some reason
Body & Relationship
โข What attracts you to someone?
โ Either if someone is really cute, short, and makes me want to hug them tight (and maybe, if consent is there, dominate them in some way), or if a guy is tall, muscular, hairy, the muscle-bear type, with a friendly face and character who does the same to me.
โข What makes you feel desired?
โ People showing me they want me as a person for both my character and my appearance.
โข What is a part of your body you appreciate?
โ My face, legs and ass.
โข How do you see yourself when you look at your photos?
โ Iโve changed a lot in the last few years, and I often forget that I actually do look like Iโm hitting the gym.
โข How has the relationship with your body changed over time?
โ Immensely. I was overweight in my teenage years, then lost a lot of weight in unhealthy ways in my early 20s. After being extremely slim I got into weight training and added some mass back on, though Iโm still not fully at the point where Iโm just happy with what I am and have. That takes some more work on the inside, rather than in the gym.
โข Red flags and green flags in a relationship/date
โ Red flags: Treating others badly (especially service staff and animals), hubris, talking about superficial things non-stop, ignoring your own privileges, lying.
Green flags: Being able to have meaningful and deep talks, honesty, being attentive, confident but not cocky. Eye contact, but in a comfortable way.
โข Your ideal location for a date?
โ Good coffee in hand and going for a long walk through the park.
โข Flirty or shy at first?
โ Flirty, but if youโre extremely attractive and my type, then also shy.
โข Tell us about a crush you have had.
โ Jason Statham. Buff, tall, bald guys with beards just do things to my mind.
Sex & Intimacy
โข When do you feel most connected during sex?
โ When thereโs a natural flow going on, communication happens through actions and not words, when you feel the rhythm of the other person and you fully adapt to each other. When you stop thinking completely and just experience whatโs going on.
โข What turns you on (physically, emotionally, mentally)?
โ A mix of being fit, hunky, confident, but friendly at the same time. Having a soft, authentic, caring side.
โข What makes a sexual experience feel good beyond the physical?
โ Trust, the absence of pressure or expectations, the feeling of being able to let go of everything and dive into your own pleasure. Being desired for who you are.
โข What do you wish people were more open about when it comes to sex?
โ That itโs okay to like what you like and that you donโt have to fit in a specific role all the time. Also, not everything has to be about sex, but itโs nothing to be ashamed of at all as long as nobody gets harmed without their consent.
โข Any kinks?
โ Sub/Dom, but not always. Still in the process of revealing new ones.
โข Tell us a fantasy of yours.
โ Having fun with several guys at the same time, being the center of attention, with them lining up to enjoy what I have to offer.
โข Use a few words to describe what good sex is to you?
โ Fun. Liberating. A way to forget every-day life.
โข Share a memorable experience (without going into too many details):
โ Going through several sessions all night with a random Grindr hookup during summer, having to clean up the AirBnB the next morning because *everything* was messy afterwards.
Finally
โข Tell us one random thing about you:
โ I have a Jigglypuff tattoo and Iโm so fucking happy because of it.
Jose in Madrid
โFor most of my life, I have known how to be the good boy.
Responsible. Polite. Professional. Well behaved. The kind of person who does things properly, who follows the rules, who tries not to make anyone uncomfortable. I learned to move through the world in a way that felt correct and safe. At work, with family, in daily life, I often present a version of myself that is composed, serious and in control.
And that version is real. But it is not the whole truth.
In private, there is another part of me. A part that is curious, sensual, playful and less afraid of crossing lines. A part that wants to explore, to try new things, to understand desire not as something shameful, but as something alive. For a long time, I kept those two parts of myself separated, as if one had to protect the other. The good boy and the man who wants more.
Maybe growing up gay, in the environment I grew up in, taught me that separation very early.
In my case, being seen often felt complicated. I learned to calculate how much of myself I could show, and where. I became skilled at reading rooms, controlling gestures, choosing words, managing the image other people had of me. Sometimes I did it so naturally that I forgot how much energy it took.
This photo session felt like a small rebellion against that.
It was not only about being photographed. It was about allowing myself to exist without explaining too much. Without needing to look perfect, respectable or useful. Without needing to be the version of myself that makes everyone else comfortable.
At 34, I am still learning how to love my body. Not because it changed suddenly, but because my relationship with it is changing. I am learning that my body does not have to meet every expectation to deserve tenderness. It does not have to be bigger, leaner, younger, stronger or more perfect to be worthy of being seen. It can simply be mine.
That sounds simple, but it has taken me time to understand it.
During the session, I became aware of how much I still try to control: my posture, my face, my angles, the way I am perceived. But little by little, I started to let go. I stopped trying to perform confidence and allowed myself to feel something more honest: vulnerability, curiosity, desire, and a strange kind of peace.
Maybe that is what freedom feels like to me right now.
Not becoming someone completely different, but allowing the hidden parts of myself to breathe. Letting the correct version of me and the private version of me belong to the same body. Accepting that I can be disciplined and sensual, serious and playful, ambitious and tender, careful and adventurous.
I do not want to live only as the person others expect me to be.
I am still the good boy in many ways. But I am no longer willing to be only that.โ