Instagram: jwx_photo
Intimate Profile: Jose
Basic Info
Name / Nickname: Jose
Instagram: @sotosinmas
About You
- Introduce yourself in a few words.
→ Young male journalist in my 40`s trying my best - Where are you right now (physically or emotionally)?
→ It could be worse. I´m happy the most of the times, but sometimes the ghost come to visit me. Physically I thin I´m better than ever. - What is your favorite place on earth?
→ El Delta del Ebro - What has been on your mind lately?
→ Struggleling against some issues - What’s a small thing that brings you joy?
→ Wake up in the morning and enjoy the first rays of sun - Your favorite piece of clothing or accessory?
→ My PA - What’s something people often misunderstand about you?
→ When they see me at a party they often think I´m superb because I don´t talk too much with people, but they don´t know I´m just very shy and I always think I´m in the wrong place - Something or someone that you are currently obsessed with?
→ Italian music. I love italian culture and I have even studied italian.
Body & Relationship
- What attracts you to someone?
→ The smile and a hot body, but the smile is everything. - What makes you feel desired?
→ Being listened, truly listened. - What is a part of your body you appreciate?
→ Nothing - How do you see yourself when you look at your photos?
→ It´s hard, because I have a very bad relationship with my body. - How has the relationship with your body changed over time?
→ I have had a very bad relationship with my body since I was a child and my family made fun of me becuase I was too thin or too fat. - Red flags and green flags in a relationship/date
→ Red flag: disdaining the waiter. I hate classist and selfish people.
→ Green flag: kindness, empathy - Your ideal location for a date?
→ Going to a movie. I love movies and I love to share that with someone. - Flirty or shy at first?
→ Extremly shy - Tell us about a crush you have had.
→ I had many and I never tell just in case they don´t like me. I´m not strong enough to face a rejection. I prefer not to tell someone and lose the opportunity than the possibility of recived a no.
Sex & Intimacy
- When do you feel most connected during sex?
→ Kissing is everything. I could Kiss for hours. That´s the real intimacy for me. - What turns you on (physically, emotionally, mentally)?
→ Italian or argentinina accent (guilty), a nice smile and a balanced mind in a muscled body, but above of all of this, kindness. The guys I have felt in love the most were nice guys. - What makes a sexual experience feel good beyond the physical?
→ When you can be yourself and don´t feel slut ashamed. We are been told that there is only one way to have sex and everything else is pervert. It takes a long time to learn what are you into and sometimes we don´t tell because prejudices. So if someone opens to you and tell you what he likes, just listen. You don´t have to do that, you don´t have to like it, but respect. - What do you wish people were more open about when it comes to sex?
→ About asking for their needs because of what I said above. - Any kinks?
→ A lot and everything is better in leather. - Tell us a fantasy of yours.
→ I will tell you in a date. But I have learn that sometimes fantasies are better not to be done because they can be not as Good as you imagined them. - Use a few words to describe what good sex is to you?
→ When you feel the connection with the other and you want to cuddle after and no dress up quickly and go back home. - Share a memorable experience (without going into too many details):
→ One night at a club´s bath
Finally
- Tell us one random thing about you:
→ I cried a lot in front of the tomb of Jack Lemmon. Was my dad´s favourite actor and his tomb is besides Billy Wilder´s, one of my favourite directors of all time. When I went to LA I went to visit them and all the memories with my father came to me in that very moment.
Jorge in Madrid
I’m Jorge, I’m 32 years old and I live in Madrid. I was raised in a Catholic Christian environment. I remember a teacher at school once saying that if everyone were gay, humanity would disappear because nobody would have children. At that time I didn’t know I was gay, but I defended gay people with all my strength because I thought what he was saying was terrible.
It wasn’t until I moved to England to study that I became aware of my own sexual orientation. I had many sexual experiences, and I suffered a lot because I was desperately searching for love. One day, a doctor at a sexual health clinic told me that I was looking for it in the wrong places, he was referring to Grindr.
I had a few relationships, but it wasn’t until I arrived in Madrid that I found the love of my life. At the beginning things were difficult, but we were in a closed relationship for seven years. Later we confessed to each other that we had both been unfaithful. When we opened the relationship, new opportunities appeared, but so did new challenges. Through therapy and through growing together, we’ve been finding ways to make it work. We can still have our romantic moments, which are important for us to preserve, while also exploring with other people together or separately.
I keep discovering more things about myself, including things I enjoy sexually.
My relationship with my own image has always been a little strange. When I was a teenager I was overweight and felt very insecure. Later, at university, I became too thin, and no matter how much I went to the gym my body never seemed to change. Much later I realised that I simply needed to eat more. Still, I’ve always struggled to fully like my body. Maybe my father’s emphasis on appearance and physical image had some influence on me.
When I was studying at university and drawing live models, I realised it was something I wanted to explore myself. I tried working as a life model and I loved the feeling. I felt free because artists interpreted my body in their own ways, and many of them saw beauty where I couldn’t see it myself. Of course, they also sometimes highlighted imperfections, and I had to learn to accept them and understand which ones were real and which ones were exaggerated.
I’ve also had nude photographs taken of me, and I love the feeling of it. I feel sexy, and I love seeing the results afterwards. I like the idea of capturing my own beauty at a particular moment in my life. I’d love to continue doing it with different photographers because I love the way it makes me feel.
Some things simply cannot be explained with words.
Featured Photographer: Daniel Pacheco
Intimate Profile: Pablo
About You
• Introduce yourself in a few words.
→ Hi, I’m Patrick. 😘 I’d say some fitting words are quirky, cheerful, fun to be around. At the same time: thoughtful, always happy to help people and make them have a good time. Good listener. ENFJ-T personality, apparently.
• Where are you right now (physically or emotionally)?
→ So far at the best place I’ve been in my life, especially emotionally. Got rid of things and people which dragged me down in the past, worked on myself, now I’m living my best life and try to experience things I couldn’t in my teens/20s.
• What is your favorite place on earth?
→ In my partner’s arms while he gently strokes my head. Either that, or being surrounded by bunnies on Ōkunoshima island (seriously, check that out).
• What has been on your mind lately?
→ We opened up our relationship and I’ve met some new, interesting – and hot – people. Trying to process all the new experiences, emotions and situations definitely keeps my mind busy, but in a positive way.
• What’s a small thing that brings you joy?
→ Seeing people smile in public.
• Your favorite piece of clothing or accessory?
→ My purple base cap from Keller Kreuzberg with “Cute Slut” embroidered on it
• What’s something people often misunderstand about you?
→ Just because I’m friendly and have basic decency doesn’t mean I’m interested in having sex with you.
• Something or someone that you are currently obsessed with?
→ My obsessions change often, but right now it’s … old Pokémon games, for some reason
Body & Relationship
• What attracts you to someone?
→ Either if someone is really cute, short, and makes me want to hug them tight (and maybe, if consent is there, dominate them in some way), or if a guy is tall, muscular, hairy, the muscle-bear type, with a friendly face and character who does the same to me.
• What makes you feel desired?
→ People showing me they want me as a person for both my character and my appearance.
• What is a part of your body you appreciate?
→ My face, legs and ass.
• How do you see yourself when you look at your photos?
→ I’ve changed a lot in the last few years, and I often forget that I actually do look like I’m hitting the gym.
• How has the relationship with your body changed over time?
→ Immensely. I was overweight in my teenage years, then lost a lot of weight in unhealthy ways in my early 20s. After being extremely slim I got into weight training and added some mass back on, though I’m still not fully at the point where I’m just happy with what I am and have. That takes some more work on the inside, rather than in the gym.
• Red flags and green flags in a relationship/date
→ Red flags: Treating others badly (especially service staff and animals), hubris, talking about superficial things non-stop, ignoring your own privileges, lying.
Green flags: Being able to have meaningful and deep talks, honesty, being attentive, confident but not cocky. Eye contact, but in a comfortable way.
• Your ideal location for a date?
→ Good coffee in hand and going for a long walk through the park.
• Flirty or shy at first?
→ Flirty, but if you’re extremely attractive and my type, then also shy.
• Tell us about a crush you have had.
→ Jason Statham. Buff, tall, bald guys with beards just do things to my mind.
Sex & Intimacy
• When do you feel most connected during sex?
→ When there’s a natural flow going on, communication happens through actions and not words, when you feel the rhythm of the other person and you fully adapt to each other. When you stop thinking completely and just experience what’s going on.
• What turns you on (physically, emotionally, mentally)?
→ A mix of being fit, hunky, confident, but friendly at the same time. Having a soft, authentic, caring side.
• What makes a sexual experience feel good beyond the physical?
→ Trust, the absence of pressure or expectations, the feeling of being able to let go of everything and dive into your own pleasure. Being desired for who you are.
• What do you wish people were more open about when it comes to sex?
→ That it’s okay to like what you like and that you don’t have to fit in a specific role all the time. Also, not everything has to be about sex, but it’s nothing to be ashamed of at all as long as nobody gets harmed without their consent.
• Any kinks?
→ Sub/Dom, but not always. Still in the process of revealing new ones.
• Tell us a fantasy of yours.
→ Having fun with several guys at the same time, being the center of attention, with them lining up to enjoy what I have to offer.
• Use a few words to describe what good sex is to you?
→ Fun. Liberating. A way to forget every-day life.
• Share a memorable experience (without going into too many details):
→ Going through several sessions all night with a random Grindr hookup during summer, having to clean up the AirBnB the next morning because *everything* was messy afterwards.
Finally
• Tell us one random thing about you:
→ I have a Jigglypuff tattoo and I’m so fucking happy because of it.
Jose in Madrid
“For most of my life, I have known how to be the good boy.
Responsible. Polite. Professional. Well behaved. The kind of person who does things properly, who follows the rules, who tries not to make anyone uncomfortable. I learned to move through the world in a way that felt correct and safe. At work, with family, in daily life, I often present a version of myself that is composed, serious and in control.
And that version is real. But it is not the whole truth.
In private, there is another part of me. A part that is curious, sensual, playful and less afraid of crossing lines. A part that wants to explore, to try new things, to understand desire not as something shameful, but as something alive. For a long time, I kept those two parts of myself separated, as if one had to protect the other. The good boy and the man who wants more.
Maybe growing up gay, in the environment I grew up in, taught me that separation very early.
In my case, being seen often felt complicated. I learned to calculate how much of myself I could show, and where. I became skilled at reading rooms, controlling gestures, choosing words, managing the image other people had of me. Sometimes I did it so naturally that I forgot how much energy it took.
This photo session felt like a small rebellion against that.
It was not only about being photographed. It was about allowing myself to exist without explaining too much. Without needing to look perfect, respectable or useful. Without needing to be the version of myself that makes everyone else comfortable.
At 34, I am still learning how to love my body. Not because it changed suddenly, but because my relationship with it is changing. I am learning that my body does not have to meet every expectation to deserve tenderness. It does not have to be bigger, leaner, younger, stronger or more perfect to be worthy of being seen. It can simply be mine.
That sounds simple, but it has taken me time to understand it.
During the session, I became aware of how much I still try to control: my posture, my face, my angles, the way I am perceived. But little by little, I started to let go. I stopped trying to perform confidence and allowed myself to feel something more honest: vulnerability, curiosity, desire, and a strange kind of peace.
Maybe that is what freedom feels like to me right now.
Not becoming someone completely different, but allowing the hidden parts of myself to breathe. Letting the correct version of me and the private version of me belong to the same body. Accepting that I can be disciplined and sensual, serious and playful, ambitious and tender, careful and adventurous.
I do not want to live only as the person others expect me to be.
I am still the good boy in many ways. But I am no longer willing to be only that.”
Featured photographer: PCPFOTOGRAPHIE
Intimate Profile: David
Basic Info
Name / Nickname: David/Dada
Instagram: @lowdada
About You
• Introduce yourself in a few words.
→ I’m an opera signer living in Paris. I’m from Quebec city, but the operatic world is not the thing there… So now I’m here in Paris, lot of Lille too, to sing and make music my living!
• Where are you right now (physically or emotionally)?
→ It’s a moment of questioning, still want opera in my life, but political decision make it more and more difficult. But world still need beauty.
• What is your favorite place on earth?
→ Boreal forest in Quebec…
• What’s a small thing that brings you joy?
→Food, pizza, easy no?
• Your favorite piece of clothing or accessory?
→ I love beautiful jeans/denim, I would buy a lot if I had the possibility hahaha
Body & Relationship
• What attracts you to someone?
→ Sweetnes, kindness, smiles
• What makes you feel desired?
→ Softness, delicate physical contacte, calm regard on me
• What is a part of your body you appreciate?
→ My smile
• How has the relationship with your body changed over time?
→ Its up and down, I’m not chasing impossible transformation, but i try to be at my best whitout obsessions
• Red flags and green flags in a relationship/date
→ Big ego: big red flag
• Your ideal location for a date?
→ Home
• Flirty or shy at first?
→ Shy (too much hahah)
Sex & Intimacy
• When do you feel most connected during sex?
→ When there is just skin connection, feeling that nobody really control but finally everything move in the way both love it…
• What turns you on (physically, emotionally, mentally)?
→ Denim bulg hihihi, but also big hands, sweet eyes, calmness, muscular thighs, hairy men…
• What makes a sexual experience feel good beyond the physical?
→ The symbios of desires, just no impositions, we follow the mouvement
• What do you wish people were more open about when it comes to sex?
→ No penetration needed… I love it, but I almost or more happy without
• Any kinks?
→ Denim, Toys, cockring, (fist, kindly hahah)
• Tell us a fantasy of yours.
→ I would love to be the little sex boy to a Rugby team hahah All those beautiful kind of sporty men enjoying my presence.
Finally
• Tell us one random thing about you:
→ I knit thongs, its beautiful, sexy and I love wearing it!
Marko in Berlin
The Courage to Change
Change is rarely comfortable. Most of us spend years trying to create stability, routines, and identities that make life feel predictable and safe. Yet the moments that shape us most profoundly often begin when something no longer fits, be it career, relationship, where we live, or even the version of ourselves we have outgrown. Change asks us to step into uncertainty before we know where it will lead. And that takes courage.
For a long time, I believed life should follow a rational and carefully planned path. After university, I began my career in the private sector before returning to academia and graduate studies. Then an unexpected opportunity in international development took my life in a completely new direction and opened the door to an international career that would shape the next chapter of my life.
Over the years, I lived in ten countries across three continents and travelled to nearly one hundred more. Experiencing different cultures and constantly adapting to new environments transformed not only how I see the world, but also how I understand people, interpersonal connections, and, most importantly, myself. Every transition required letting go of old identities and build a new one in an environment of uncertainty.
For most of my life, I approached the world intellectually. I was deeply rational, analytical, and scientifically minded. But eventually I realised that understanding life logically is not the same as living it. Some of the biggest transformations happen when we allow space for creativity, intuition, emotion, and spirituality.
So eventually my last transformation led me to leave my conventional “9 to 5” corporate job and go freelance to focus fully on helping people navigate their own transformations using schema coaching on the cognitive level to understand why we are stuck in life, and Reiki on the spiritual level to reconnect mind, body, and spirit into a balanced whole.
Looking back, none of the biggest transformations in my life arrived at convenient moments. But every meaningful chapter began the moment I stopped resisting change and started trusting the process.
As Carl Jung wrote: “I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.”
