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Cedric from Paris

Posted on December 14, 2020December 14, 2020 by admin

Where do you start when you have to talk about yourself?  My life has been relatively simple!  Say that I lost my father when I was little?  It happened when I was very young so it is not a defining event in my life. Say that during my schooling people laughed at me?  Yes, I think that has happened to a lot of people and a lot of young gay people. Say That I don’t have the perfect physique?  Yes, but like the majority of the population after all!  So no, I don’t really know what to talk about.

Maybe love and sexuality?  It seems interesting enough to me to write several lines about it. When sexuality and love come together I think it can be magical, but it isn’t always the case. You should know that I had my very first sexual intercourse quite late (when I compare to those around me): 19 years old!  And discovering Grindr at 19 and assuming that I was still a virgin, I might as well tell you that I was just a piece of meat up for auction.

Luckily it happened with a guy I knew pretty well.  But once the milestone was crossed, I gave free rein to my desires, to the discovery my sexuality! Craving for everything and realizing that my profile was popular on Grindr, I literally did my shopping!  Like products that I added to my basket and that I consumed, I chained the men, one after the other.  Very new to me then I realize now that I might have been abused a bit.  

This is where love comes in!  Just 20 years old and  falling in love. Wow! first time and for 3 years.  But falling in love when it’s been a few months since I discovered sex, I wanted to learn more.  Lucky to have come across a man (14 years older than me) who is quite open-minded: he decided to go on and explore my libido!  Very open-minded, I can say today that it was with him that I learned and built my sexuality: accessories, little games, three or more etc etc …!  So yes for a first relationship this is not the best idea, and I will not relive that as a couple.  But it allowed me to gain self-confidence, to know my strengths, and to know my tastes in terms of sex, all this in safety and with someone I loved!  

Then, when I was 23, I ended up having what you might call love at first sight for a guy!  Well this time it worked for love but sex was almost non-existent! It lasted for several months. Going from a relationship with way too much sex to one with nothing at all.  Obviously when that was over, Grindr became a really good friend and I felt like I was catching up on my sex cravings for months in one summer. As a result, I sort of overdosed on sex.  And then I took a break from love and sex for one year. Today everything is fine!  During this break I learned to love my body. Thanks to photography and a nit of sport!  Loving your body is gaining self-confidence and it shows, it feels. I wanted to see men again.

And this summer was different, sex yes, but more intense, better than before!  And recently I met a very handsome guy for a sex date.  When we saw each other we talked from 10 p.m. to 3 a.m.  And we didn’t sleep together after all.  Is it fun to go for a sex party and finally find love?  I thought by myself that this is the perfect way to combine sex and love. Maybe this is a sign of a lasting relationship, full of love and finally stable sex. The future will tell.  Today I am 25 years old, I know I am ready to love and I know my sexuality.

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